Thursday, November 10, 2011
The Uncontested Divorce: Pros And Cons
Most divorces nowadays are uncontested. It's far less expensive, time consuming, and allows both sides to end their marriage on good terms. It's also better particularly if children are involved, as they won't have to witness a year long battle in court over who gets custody. The following discuses the advantages and disadvantages of this divorce in greater depth.
As mentioned, the uncontested divorce will save both spouses a lot of money. And for many, this is probably what's most attractive about it. Contested divorces last a lot longer, and both parties really have no choice but to hire lawyers. Over the course of six months to a year, the fees will really add up and cost a small fortune. Uncontested divorces can be completed only spending hundreds of dollars, as opposed to the thousands you will have to spend going to court. Both sides will certainly benefit from the money saved.
The benefits of an uncontested divorce are intangible as well. Contested divorces are often get ugly between both sides. Fighting it out in the courts for a year will only make the relationship between the two spouses worse. And the children will ultimately suffer that much more. An uncontested divorce however allows both sides to work together and compromise. This of course doesn't mean that there won't be tense moments, but the process is much quicker and not nearly as hostile.
You will always be connected to your spouse if you have children. So it's in the best interest of both sides to have a relationship that's on good terms.
As mentioned, an uncontested divorce will likely not be without it's rocky moments. Let's face it, a breakup is never completely smooth no matter what. But as long as both sides desire to go uncontested, then chances are good that all the terms will be agreed upon.
Going the uncontested route may not always be feasible, particularly if one spouse has been abused. But it's a realistic option in the majority of cases.
What are the downsides? There aren't many to be honest, but having to work with ex-wife or husband on all the issues can be emotionally draining. You will have to agree on all the major issues, such as child custody, property division, spousal support, and so on. This is not easy. You are getting divorced for a reason, and so agreeing with one another can be challenging, especially if both sides aren't willing to give on certain issues.
So uncontested divorces do involved some work on both ends. But the advantages certainly outweigh the disadvantages.
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Posted by Rene and Tammy Bojorquez at 10:02 PM